Since you are able to do all your improvements at once, I think when you move in and make it your home, you will likely feel better. We have had to do things in drips and drabs. We did interior paint, flooring, new baseboards and opening a wall before we moved in and had to buy appliances. Spiffing up the yard came next and this year we have done some pavers and a patio and finally got some blinds, but nearly everything else has been put on hold. The exterior is still the color of pistachio ice cream and the kitchen is horrendous. At least your house will be remodeled and painted how you wanted before you move in.
As much as it seems like I’m complaining, what I found is that you just get used to it. I really enjoy visualzing and dreaming of what we could do if we had the money. Little by little it gets there and it becomes what you envision.
One of the things that makes me feel better about it is that my husband really likes the house. Does your husband feel remorse too?
No, my husband has no regrets. He feels bad that I’m not happy, but that’s it. He thinks I’ll come around once the remodeling is done.
