Craving
Silently Craving -- Michael Kiske
The Second Noble Truth of the Buddha is that all suffering is caused by craving. People who took out HELOCs to fuel consumer spending gave in to craving, and they are about to endure a period of extreme suffering in their lives. People crave for just about everything they believe money can buy: cars, boats, vacations, status, lovers, self-esteem, and many other things or states of mind. HELOCs enabled people to obtain things that would have been denied to them under ordinary circumstances. When people obtain objects of their desire, it leads to a temporary state of satiation followed by an even more intense wanting. It is like drinking salt water: you think it helps, but drinking it makes you even more dehydrated and causes you to crave water even more. Those that drank the kool aid of the Great Housing Bubble took out HELOCS and tried to satisfy the craving beast inside. It didn't work. What is worse for them is that they are now accustomed to feeding this craving beast a steady diet of whatever it wants. Once this beast learns to feed regularly, it causes even more suffering when it is not fed. The HELOCs which bought the food to feed the craving beast are drying up. The housing ATM is broken.
It is my hope that profiling these stories of HELOC abuse does more than satisfy the beast of schadenfreude within all of us (that leads to suffering through separateness.) I hope these stories serve as a lasting lesson to people. It is common for people to react with envy to the rampant consumer spending these stories contain, but take a moment to consider the pain the hangover must be causing. These HELOC abusers are losing their houses, their lifestyles, their illusions of wealth, and their real money. Each of us must struggle between the unskillful desire to revel in their pain and skillful practice of feeling empathy for their plight. I know I do. It is important to move beyond schadenfreude lest we become trapped in the same feedback loop always needing another fix of someone else's pain to make us feel whole and happy.
In the meantime, enjoy today's post about another HELOC abuser who took out $600,000 over a 4 year period. Where do you think they will be finding that $150,000 a year supplemental income in this recession? 
